(NEWSCHANNEL 3) – Losing a spouse can be one of the most painful experiences anyone will ever go through.
Newschannel 3 recently talked to one woman who volunteered her way through the healing process.
“I’ve known for quite some time that my goal in life is to help others,” said Shirley Lyke.
For six hours a week Lyke volunteers, not because she needs to, but because she wants to.
“Kept me week to week, knowing I’m going to be here,” said Lyke. “Literally, it’s changed my life.”
Seven years ago another life-changing moment led Lyke to volunteer. She lost her husband, George, to colon cancer.
During his last days, George received care from the Borgess Visiting Nurse program.
“It’s a very wonderful, kind, a soft program,” said Lyke.
As one of 70 volunteers, Lyke delivers medicine, files paperwork, and offers advice to those who are in the shoes she was once in, widowed for the first time.
“It’s truly value added because it assists our staff to do our jobs better,” said Linda Young of Borgess Visiting Nurse & Hospice.
Volunteers compliment the program, which was launched 53 years ago. They’re part of a team made up of registered nurses, therapists, social workers, and dietitians.
“It allows the patient to receive home care services, hospice services, surrounded by their family and friends but the focus is really on symptom control and management and enjoying the experience at the end of life,” said Young.
Lyke is now the ‘face’ of the program, and is featured on the VNA’s volunteering brochure. She’s an example of having lived through the loss of a spouse and returning the hospice help she was once given by giving it back.
“Maybe I wouldn’t even be over it yet, today,” said Lyke. “So hospice has helped me tremendously, in many ways.”


